Paediatric urology

Bedwetting (nocturnal enuresis) in children

Bedwetting after the age of five is common, it is not the child's fault and it can be treated successfully. How primary and secondary enuresis differ, what the urologist rules out and when an alarm and medication help.

Bedwetting, or nocturnal enuresis, is the involuntary passing of urine during sleep in a child who is already old enough to control their bladder – by the generally accepted threshold, after their fifth birthday.

The condition is more common than it seems, because families rarely talk about it: roughly one in ten seven-year-olds wets the bed at night, and some teenagers do too. Effective treatment exists, and there is no reason to wait while the bedwetting undermines the child’s self-confidence. Dr Penev sees children with enuresis in Plovdiv and Karlovo – always together with their parents and without blaming the child.

What enuresis is

A dry night needs three things: the kidneys must produce less urine during sleep, the bladder must hold what is produced, and the brain must wake up if the bladder fills. In enuresis, one or more of these links has not yet matured.

In primary enuresis the child has never had dry nights for six months or more – this is the most common form. In secondary enuresis the bedwetting returns after at least half a year without wet nights, and there is more often a trigger: an infection, constipation, stress, the onset of diabetes. In monosymptomatic enuresis the only problem is at night; in non-monosymptomatic enuresis there are daytime symptoms as well, and the bladder is assessed in more detail.

Symptoms

The main symptom is a wet bed, usually in the first half of the night, in a child who is deeply asleep. Signs of an accompanying problem:

  • daytime leakage, passing urine very often or very rarely, urges that cannot be held;
  • burning, pain, cloudy or smelly urine, a fever – a possible urinary tract infection;
  • hard, infrequent bowel movements or soiling of underwear – constipation pressing on the bladder;
  • strong thirst, weight loss and large amounts of urine – a warning sign of diabetes.

When it is urgent: if your child suddenly cannot pass urine, has severe pain in the abdomen or lower back, a high temperature with vomiting, or blood in the urine, go to an emergency department or call 112 (the European emergency number) straight away instead of waiting for a planned appointment.

Causes and risk factors

Enuresis is almost never a psychological problem or laziness. The most common causes are heredity (if a parent wet the bed as a child, the risk is considerably higher); nocturnal polyuria – the kidneys produce more urine at night because the hormone vasopressin does not rise enough during sleep; a small bladder capacity or an overactive bladder; and a high threshold for waking up. Constipation, infections, breathing problems during sleep, attention deficit disorder and stress also contribute.

Diagnosis

At the paediatric urology consultation Dr Penev asks about how often the wet nights happen, the child’s habits for passing urine and drinking, bowel movements, sleep and family history. A diary kept for two or three days with the times and amounts is useful – it shows whether the problem lies in the volume of urine at night or in the capacity of the bladder.

The examination covers the abdomen, the genitals, the back and the legs, and a dipstick urine test rules out infection and sugar. If there are daytime symptoms or a suspicion of incomplete emptying, at the doctor’s discretion an ultrasound scan of the kidneys and bladder with measurement of the residual urine is added and, if needed, uroflowmetry – a painless measurement of the urine stream.

Treatment

Routine and behavioural measures

Treatment starts by explaining to the child and the parents that bedwetting is nobody’s fault and is not under conscious control. Then come simple rules: passing urine every two to three hours during the day and before bed; most fluids drunk by early afternoon, only small amounts in the evening, and no fizzy or caffeinated drinks; treating constipation, without which the other measures often do not work. Punishment has no place; a calendar that rewards effort rather than results is useful.

Bedwetting alarm

The alarm is a small sensor in the underwear or on a pad that sounds at the first drops and wakes the child; over time the brain learns to recognise the signal from a full bladder. Treatment usually takes two to three months and needs persistence from the whole family, but the result is longer-lasting and achieved without medicines.

Medication

Desmopressin is a synthetic analogue of vasopressin that reduces urine production during the night. It is taken in the evening as a tablet or as a melt that dissolves under the tongue, in children with nocturnal polyuria and normal bladder capacity; the nasal spray is not used for enuresis. The child should not drink fluids for one hour before and eight hours after taking it, and if there is vomiting, diarrhoea or a larger amount of fluid drunk that evening, the dose is skipped so that water is not retained in the body; it is stopped gradually, as the doctor advises. For an overactive bladder, medicines that relax the bladder are added, and in persistent cases the alarm and desmopressin are combined.

When to see a urologist

A consultation is appropriate when your child is five or six years old and still regularly wets the bed, when bedwetting returns after a long dry period, when there is daytime leakage, pain, infections or changes in the urine stream, and when the problem is already weighing on the child – they refuse to go to camps or to stay with friends.

Prevention

Enuresis cannot be prevented completely, but healthy habits make treatment easier: enough fluids during the day, passing urine regularly, preventing constipation with fruit, vegetables and physical activity, a steady sleep routine and a home atmosphere in which a wet bed is just a minor incident.

Bedwetting is a temporary condition with good treatment options. If your child needs help, book an appointment with Dr Penev for a calm conversation, an accurate diagnosis and a plan that suits your family.

Frequently asked questions

Should I wake my child during the night to go to the toilet?

Waking by the clock keeps the sheets dry, but it does not teach the brain to respond to a full bladder, and the effect disappears as soon as you stop. It is not recommended as a treatment on its own; an alarm is different because it wakes the child exactly when it is needed.

Should we stop night-time nappies?

Once active treatment starts, it is usually better to remove them so that the child feels the wetness and takes part in the process. Before the age of five, and as long as there is no treatment, nappies are simply a practical solution and do no harm.

Will the bedwetting come back after the medicine is stopped?

With desmopressin, symptoms often return after stopping it abruptly, so the dose is reduced gradually as the doctor advises. With an alarm, the result achieved is usually longer-lasting.

Is it our fault as parents?

No. Enuresis is a condition of maturation with clear biological causes and a strong hereditary component. Neither upbringing nor the home environment causes it; punishment and shame only make it worse.

Can my child go to camp or sleep over at friends' houses?

Yes, with a little preparation. Desmopressin for a short period, prescribed by the doctor, is often used for dry nights when travelling, and a discreet waterproof sheet and spare underwear give peace of mind.

The information on this website is for general education and does not replace an examination and consultation with a doctor. If you have urgent symptoms, seek medical help immediately or call 112.

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Emergency

Call 112 or go to an emergency department if you have:

  • sudden severe pain in a testicle or the scrotum;
  • pain in the lower back or abdomen with a temperature above 38 °C or shivering;
  • you cannot pass urine and your lower abdomen is swollen and painful;
  • severe pain that does not ease after a painkiller;
  • heavy bleeding in the urine with clots.

Today

Call the practice today if you have:

  • attacks of pain in the lower back that ease with a painkiller but keep coming back;
  • burning and frequent urination, especially with a slightly raised temperature;
  • blood in the urine without clots and without pain;
  • swelling or pain in a testicle that has come on gradually;
  • increasing discomfort or leakage around a catheter or stent.

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Routine

Book an appointment if:

  • your symptoms are mild or have lasted for weeks;
  • you have a raised PSA or an ultrasound finding;
  • a stone was found by chance and does not hurt;
  • you would like a preventive check-up.

This is guidance, not a diagnosis. If you are unsure whether it is an emergency, call 112.